Why Men Can't Win!

How True. :nod:


Why Men Can't Win

- If you work too hard, there is never any time for her.
- If you don't work enough, you're a good-for-nothing bum.
- If she has a boring repetitive job with low pay, it's exploitation.
- If you have a boring repetitive job with low pay, you should get off your butt and find something better.
- If you get a promotion ahead of her, it's favoritism.
- If she gets a job ahead of you, it's equal opportunity.
- If you mention how nice she looks, it's sexual harassment.
- If you keep quiet, it's male indifference.
- If you cry, you're a wimp. If you don't, you're insensitive.
- If you make a decision without consulting her, you're a chauvinist.
- If she makes a decision without consulting you, she's a liberated woman.
- If you ask her to do something she doesn't enjoy, that's domination.
- If she asks you, it's a favor.
- If you try to keep yourself in shape, you're vain.
- If you don't, you're a slob.
- If you buy her flowers, you're after something. If you don't, you're not thoughtful.
- If you're proud of your achievements, you're an egotist.
- If you're not, you're not ambitious.
- If she has a headache, she's tired. If you have a headache, you don't love her anymore.

 

you missed

-If you object to her going out partying, your jealous, and possessive. If you don't, then you don't care and she may as well go out on the pull.

 

I think the general reason is , why men cant win, is
because they are so afraid to show us they love us.
in the little ways that mean so much to us.

One my ex's , when I asked him , if he loved me, said
"IM HERE AINT I"?

That's why he is one of my ex's

kayrose

 

You shouldn't have to ask "Do you love me"
Give him enough attention and make him feel important and he will say it of his own free will.
An "in your face" question like that, what would you expect him to say?

 

i would expect him to say he loved me very much.
IS that so hard FOR you guys to show love.

i myself would never give that answer
like that TO anyone I loved.
thanks FOR your answer DSMT

Anymore want to give their opinion?????
kayrose

:unsure2: :smile2:

 

Not particularly

 

Yes, I will first say DSTM is right, secondly, if you feel the need to ask, you just might get that sort of answer because your instinct told he doesn't any more.
Simple answer though, if you never want an answer like that, then don't ever ask.
We do in general hate hearing that question, especially when we feel we have done everything to show we love you, we should therefore never ever need to say it, but just do now and then.

Go on say it---- "And you think us women are hard to understand"

Nev.

 

Some of you might enjoy this video. It has been around for quite a while, but still a good one. (I think)

 

He is a funny Guy and enjoyed the Video, redwing.
Thanks for posting.

 

AND you think us women are hard to understand?????????
:unsure: :wub2: :unsure2:

 

ok , sometimes THE MEn can't win, because they always think they are right MOST of the time.
There i said it and im glad.
KAYROSE

 

OK so if I close this thread does that mean I am right and I win?

 

Promise you wont bann me if i say your wrong??????
and you don't win.!!
hmy: :smile2:

 

The only way to beat a woman is (with a big stick..Joke) by letting them think they have won fair and square. which means you have to enter the discussion using reverse psychology.

 

That is a very tricky thing to get right though, it is a bit like reversing a car for ten miles using nothing but the passenger side wing mirror to see where you are going.

 

Nah correction 'we know we're right most of the time'

 

Yep, THATS whY men can't wIN. :wink:

 

lol..funny,that is truth,it seems that these things have become women's privileges..